There are many reasons why, including therapy, antidepressants, and weight loss and subsequent surgery—but I would have to say that the big reason is communication.If you had known us 25 years ago, Dan, you would not have given us good odds.Recently I've experimented with long-term edges, where I'll withhold coming for days or weeks while still maintaining a daily masturbation practice.
I was a virgin, my wife was not, together we hadn't gotten much past second base, and neither of us had laid our kink cards on the table.
On the Lovecast, Slate's Evan Urquhart on dating a trans guy:
In a recent column, you said you never hear from married couples whose sex life got better and more frequent over the years. My wife and I were married 24 years ago, and we are currently having more sex and better sex than we did in the first years of our marriage.
After this crisis, he agreed to work things out, but then I found adult-size diapers in the house—and not for the first time! Then I found adult-size diapers in the house again this morning and freaked out.
I took a picture and sent it to him, and he told me that he was tired of me controlling him and he is going to do this when he wants. He says he never wants to discuss diapers with me again, and I'm afraid he might choose them over me! Married A Disgusting Diaper Lover First, MADDL, let's calmly discuss this with a shrink.
He may have thought he could choose you over his kink, MADDL, but now he knows what Dr.